Asked to Become a Wedding Officiant? Here’s What to Do Next!

Have you recently been asked to become a wedding officiant for a friend or family member’s special day? It’s a huge honor—and a big responsibility. Whether you’re a lifelong Christian or someone just beginning your journey of faith, this opportunity might leave you wondering, “What now?”

The good news is: You’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.


Free, Study-Based Program to Get You Ready

Begin your journey to become a wedding officiant at Christian Leaders Institute. Christian Leaders Institute (CLI) believes that high-quality ministry training should be accessible to anyone, anywhere. That’s why our free, study-based courses are designed to prepare you to officiate weddings confidently and legally. You can take the courses online, at your own pace, from the comfort of your home.

These classes cover everything you need to know, including:

  • The role of a wedding officiant

  • Meeting with couples for pre-marital guidance

  • Legal responsibilities and how to research local marriage laws

  • Writing and delivering a meaningful wedding message

  • Conducting a wedding rehearsal

  • Creating and leading the wedding ceremony

All this is part of CLI’s free access higher education model—open to anyone with an internet connection. There’s no obligation to pay, and no strings attached. Yes, donations are encouraged to support this global training mission, but they are completely optional.


From Training to Ordination: The Christian Leaders Alliance Path

Once you complete your coursework at CLI, you can take the next step through Christian Leaders Alliance (CLA), which offers a low-cost credentialing process. This program helps you become officially recognized and ordained as a Christian wedding officiant. The ordination includes a local endorsement process and official documentation so you can legally officiate weddings in most regions.

This study-based and legitimately recognized process offers more than a quick certificate—it gives you the training, confidence, and credibility to lead one of life’s most sacred ceremonies with excellence and spiritual depth.


Start Your Journey Today

So, if you’ve been asked to become a wedding officiant, don’t settle for a quick-fix online ordination. Step into your calling with confidence by enrolling at Christian Leaders Institute—it’s free, comprehensive, and spiritually grounded. When you’re ready, the Christian Leaders Alliance is here to help you get officially ordained.

🔗 Get Started with Free Wedding Officiant Training
🔗 Learn About Ordination at Christian Leaders Alliance

Whether you officiate one wedding or many, this journey could be the beginning of something beautiful in your life and ministry.

Wedding Officiant Testimony

Wendy Waiwaiole has dedicated her life to serving others with compassion, wisdom,Asked to Become a Wedding Officiant and a heart for ministry. With over three decades of experience as a counselor, coach, wedding coordinator, and spiritual director, she has walked alongside individuals and couples in a variety of settings—including private practice, church communities, and parachurch organizations. Her commitment to guiding and supporting others has been the foundation of her life’s mission.

Becoming an ordained Christian wedding officiant was a natural next step in her ministry journey. Though ordination had long been on her “To Do” list, other opportunities took precedence until a dear friend invited her to officiate their wedding. This special request rekindled her desire to formalize her calling, and she pursued ordination through Christian Leaders Alliance (CLA).

The CLA ordination program, with its accessible, self-paced structure and strong biblical foundation, was the perfect fit.  Christian Leaders Alliance is a program of Christian Leaders Institute that offers donation-supported free quality ministry training courses. Christian Leaders Institute offers courses and opportunity for continued study not only equipped her with the practical tools for officiating weddings but also deepened her understanding of the sacred covenant of marriage.

As a wedding officiant, Wendy considers it a profound honor to be part of one of life’s most meaningful milestones. She approaches each ceremony with warmth, attentiveness, and a desire to celebrate the unique love story of every couple while reflecting the beauty of God’s design for marriage. Whether helping couples prepare for their journey together or crafting a personalized ceremony, her goal is to make each wedding day a joyous and sacred experience.

Wendy looks forward to continuing her mission of serving others through the ministry of marriage, offering couples a thoughtful, faith-filled, and memorable wedding experience that honors their commitment and glorifies God

Henry Reyenga
Author: Henry Reyenga

Henry Reyenga is president of Christian Leaders Institute and Christian Leaders Alliance.